Six Behavior to employ during crisis management for parent
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Crisis is part of life, we learn to manage them not to dodge them. When it enters a family there is always the need to be managed it very well so it does not break down children. Mostly divorce, sickness, death of family member, financial challenges, bullying at school, and their likes are some of the challenges a parent may have to deal in handling children.
If these situations are acceptable problem for adult then the situation is a major worry to your child. In as much as, one may have certain level of experience or strategies in handling set backs, we mostly encountered crisis in a period we are found less, in terms of preparation. As you can agree with me, a kind of crisis hits when your normal strategies can't resist. It may have rendered you in a state of panic or shock, so depressed that coping yourself is impossible, how much worse extending the burden on your children?
In the few paragraphs I will discuss six unique timely tested behavior to employ if the worst happens.
Some crisis in the family turns out to become weapons in the hand of parents. Divorce for instance, always put children in the hands of litigant parents. The battle to win the heart of children by any of the parties rather break the fragile heart of a child and ignite the child towards paths of hatred against the other. if you are set to end up with your spouse let your child be as innocent as ever. Commit to your responsible towards the children even if it might benefit your opposing spouse. When your pocket dry out, you are depressed don't exhibit your anger on your child. Always, bear in mind, your child does not care whose fault brought the crisis. They only need it to be fixed.
Never consider your child immature during your crisis period. It is always better to tell a child why you are losing your estate to a bank than to let the child find it elsewhere. Telling the child what is happening means you consider him part of the house and you count on him or her for solution.
To speak, is to tell the truth. If you want to lie a little while, please reconsider this old African saying, "he who lies in the morning lives to defend the lie in the evening". Jesus put it this way "You shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free". Being truthful in crisis is part of crisis management.
Some crisis come out with a devastating effect. Death for instance brings emotional reactions, differ from a person to the other. The way you may handle it shall differ from how your child may do. Respect his emotion and understand him on how he adjust to cope. In most part of Africa, our culture encourages our sympathizers calm you down especially during weeping as a result of crisis. When you realize the your child want to weep in the crisis period encourage him to weep more.
Some shocks in crises remain with you forever, they are as if they are embedded in your skin. Your understanding here is paramount. It is only in your understanding that you will gain. Let your children feel these effects but share with them the success in them. Every human being exhibit strength. Let your children celebrate their strength in remembrance than their weakness.
Most of the time we live to avoid failure. We want to shun away from any act of failure. If you as an adult can't avoid to fail, then your children can fail badly. Instead to scare them with effect of failure, let them see hope in failure. It is failure which set touch on success. When your child fails an examination, see through success as you encourage him to prepare for another day. Tell your children that it ism't true that opportunity comes but once. Tell them every second is an opportunity, until you seize to breathe your multi-seconds shall work sometime.
It is said "action speaks than words" Man develop persistence actions over time. Thoughts become altitudes and graduate into habits. Habits display your action. You mostly do them without thinking. Your action in crisis tell everyone the kind of a person you are. To be able to carry your child through a trialing times ensure you have a consistent impacting lifestyle. Check your speech, morality, beliefs, values and culture. teach your children how to live with contentment.
Parenting is very difficult part of marriage, make yours count, whatever may be. Thank you, comment on this article below.
If these situations are acceptable problem for adult then the situation is a major worry to your child. In as much as, one may have certain level of experience or strategies in handling set backs, we mostly encountered crisis in a period we are found less, in terms of preparation. As you can agree with me, a kind of crisis hits when your normal strategies can't resist. It may have rendered you in a state of panic or shock, so depressed that coping yourself is impossible, how much worse extending the burden on your children?
In the few paragraphs I will discuss six unique timely tested behavior to employ if the worst happens.
Protect the innocence of children
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Some crisis in the family turns out to become weapons in the hand of parents. Divorce for instance, always put children in the hands of litigant parents. The battle to win the heart of children by any of the parties rather break the fragile heart of a child and ignite the child towards paths of hatred against the other. if you are set to end up with your spouse let your child be as innocent as ever. Commit to your responsible towards the children even if it might benefit your opposing spouse. When your pocket dry out, you are depressed don't exhibit your anger on your child. Always, bear in mind, your child does not care whose fault brought the crisis. They only need it to be fixed.
Tell them the truth
Never consider your child immature during your crisis period. It is always better to tell a child why you are losing your estate to a bank than to let the child find it elsewhere. Telling the child what is happening means you consider him part of the house and you count on him or her for solution.
To speak, is to tell the truth. If you want to lie a little while, please reconsider this old African saying, "he who lies in the morning lives to defend the lie in the evening". Jesus put it this way "You shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free". Being truthful in crisis is part of crisis management.
Allow them to cope by themselves
Some crisis come out with a devastating effect. Death for instance brings emotional reactions, differ from a person to the other. The way you may handle it shall differ from how your child may do. Respect his emotion and understand him on how he adjust to cope. In most part of Africa, our culture encourages our sympathizers calm you down especially during weeping as a result of crisis. When you realize the your child want to weep in the crisis period encourage him to weep more.
Understand long lasting aftershocks
Some shocks in crises remain with you forever, they are as if they are embedded in your skin. Your understanding here is paramount. It is only in your understanding that you will gain. Let your children feel these effects but share with them the success in them. Every human being exhibit strength. Let your children celebrate their strength in remembrance than their weakness.
Tell them the success in failing.
Most of the time we live to avoid failure. We want to shun away from any act of failure. If you as an adult can't avoid to fail, then your children can fail badly. Instead to scare them with effect of failure, let them see hope in failure. It is failure which set touch on success. When your child fails an examination, see through success as you encourage him to prepare for another day. Tell your children that it ism't true that opportunity comes but once. Tell them every second is an opportunity, until you seize to breathe your multi-seconds shall work sometime.
Check your action
It is said "action speaks than words" Man develop persistence actions over time. Thoughts become altitudes and graduate into habits. Habits display your action. You mostly do them without thinking. Your action in crisis tell everyone the kind of a person you are. To be able to carry your child through a trialing times ensure you have a consistent impacting lifestyle. Check your speech, morality, beliefs, values and culture. teach your children how to live with contentment.
Parenting is very difficult part of marriage, make yours count, whatever may be. Thank you, comment on this article below.
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